Additionally, gay relationships carry cultural scars, igniting our collective defenses about masculinity and sex. However, beneath these defenses lies our greatest personal potential.
MEN’S SEX AND INTIMACY COUNSELING
Finn is an AASECT Certified Sexuality Counselor and intimacy coach who works with gay, bi, and queer male-identified people across the globe to work toward inner healing, unlock erotic potential, and usher in an evolving sense of confidence and authenticity.
The guy is hilarious.
— Kayden Gray, adult model
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I feel so much better after my sessions with Finn, and I love the way my relationship is unfolding.
Like all relationships, gay ones are challenging; yet, we are uniquely burdened by those cultural legacy issues inherited about male bodies, masculinity, shame, and a lack of permission to feel vulnerable. He is wise beyond his years, and the tools he taught me are those I will use for a lifetime.”
— Jamie McElmon
I first met Finn on a Himeros.tv set.
Those who view partnership as a life path.
*For this course, a history of personal and/or couples therapy is strongly suggested.
Romantic partnerships come with unique gifts and burdens. Not only are they highly trained at creating safe spaces without judgement, the Somatica Training has also prepared them to aptly navigate the various aspects related to gender identity, transition, relationship issues, societal shaming etc.
Here are some key aspects of how a LGBTQ+ / gay sex coach can help you:
Supporting you in exploring and understanding your sexual orientation or gender identity.
At the same time, our sexuality has been the very aspect that cost us, when we were young, the necessary foundational acceptance we needed in order to create healthy, fulfilling adult relationships. In some ways, we enjoy more permission to be ourselves, and for many queer people, sexuality is a central facet of personal identification.
LGBTQ+ & Gay Sex Coaches
Not finding what you’re looking for?
This may involve discussions about gender dysphoria, self-discovery, and personal reflection.
Helping you build self-acceptance and confidence, and embracing you authentic self. Relationships that need a "tune-up.”
*For this course, you don't need any prior or adjunctive therapy, though it is suggested.
More than ever, gay relationships have become quite challenging because they are naturally riddled with paradox.
Finn’s coaching is 100% hands-off, and most offerings are virtual, except for retreats. In the depths of our deepest wounds, we can access a pathway to our highest aspirations. He listens, with a kind, compassionate ear, and remains fully engaged with the work. As a result, gay relationships frequently suffer from intimacy issues that can be avoided by learning significant tools to increase relational security while, at the same time, prioritizing sexual expression.
This course addresses:
Which relationship structure is right for me?
He pushed me with love and guided me to be more authentic and gentle with myself. During our one-on-one sessions following the shoot I had a chance to get a deeper understanding of just how fundamental the work Finn does is.
This has been the single best experience I’ve had on my quest to work through past traumas, communicate healthier boundaries and - most of all - cultivate unconditional self-worth.
Feelings of jealousy were creeping in from both of us as our attraction grew.
What you get out of this relationship is universal — it’s like therapy with some fun bonuses…or if therapy is a scary word, it’s like discovering some magical, natural, healthy food that tastes like candy.”
— Nick and Andrew Halfhill
“Working with Finn was the greatest gift I gave myself. Unfortunately, we often spend much of our time in relationships maintaining strategies for personal safety at the expense of abandoned parts of ourselves.
Whether some type of open relationship or a sexually exclusive relationship.
How to craft unique, mutual agreements about sexuality and eroticism, no matter which relationship structure you choose.
Why self-pleasure can be beneficial for your sexual relationship(s).
Practice effective boundaries.
Managing triggers.
How to frame conflict in order to maximize personal growth.
How to have important difficult conversations.
Learn skills to be a better lover.
This course is good for:
Partners who deeply love each other but struggle to open all the way.