Young and old gays

Daniel Felsenthal, a 33-year-old man, provides a rare glimpse into this experience, sharing his journey of loving much older men, including his 77-year-old husband. Perhaps, survive.

Writers: don’t just follow trends—challenge them. But flip that lens and you’ll find something richer. Or a story where the mentor isn’t tragic, but sexy, smart, and sharp-tongued.

You don’t have to write them as saints or punchlines.

Want to write layered, queer-centered fiction with depth and heart? He recounts his early experiences at a bar where older men gathered, noting how these men, far from seeking validation, simply wanted to enjoy life without the pressure to conform to youthful ideals. But they might know how to survive a heartbreak with dignity or how to fix your leaky faucet while giving you relationship advice.

You’ll be the one with the love story younger people whisper about in coffee shops, wondering how you made it last.

When that day comes, wouldn’t it be something to say that you once had a friend who taught you how to age with style? You know, when Judy Garland played on the jukebox, and someone they loved finally said yes.

As a writer, you want depth?

They change, learn, laugh, and even text with emojis (though sometimes tragically).

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